Sorry, for an uncalculated outburst in my post” WHEN YOU SAY HOW FAR IS ENOUGH “. It wasn’t meant to hurt anyone or anybody at WordPress it’s a family issue a great misunderstanding between me and my husband. A breach that is hard to put out .It’s an issue of trust, honor , love and respect I guess we’re losing that part of our relationship , he was just being selfish and don’t know how to love.
Have you read about David and Abigail? in the old t testament? Well he was just like Nabal her husband. Hard to stress further but I want to clear the issue since I noticed
many of you visited my site thank you but it saddened me because you think of me as an immature , unprofessional and emotional blogger. I was just very hurt with his actions of tearing everything that makes me happy. I choose not to work , stay at home to please him to be there at his beck and call .I don’t go out alone not to arise suspicion living with his family and relatives here while his working outside the country for more than 4 years now. I know it’s hard to sacrifice for the family’s needs.
We are living practically apart for over 20 years of marriage ,our’s is a long distance relationship from the start. We are always apart in addition, marriage without courtship makes it hard for us to compromise.Since, he is always the one who makes decision while I was the passive one by not trying to struggle and fight so as not to arise misunderstandings.
I lost control because of his domineering , manipulative, strict and restraining attitude . He never ask for what I want because he knows that he is always right. There never a day that we are not fighting of course he’s always the first initiating quarrels.
I guess, there’s no more ways to save my marriage if we live together again he treats me like a retarded kid with physical and verbal attracts. I’m sorry shaming myself this much is already breaking my heart but I want you to understand that I tried very haard to understand him and keep my cool.B ut I guess ….I too have a breaking point. I guess, I have to give myself a breathing space .My marital situation’s scored 16;20 . from bad to worst . I’ve gone too far …..revealing too far….but I need to let go of my pent-up emotions when all of you are concerned. SORRY…. I’m not picking quarrel with anyone here or harboring grudge to anyone or anybody.
I guess , I should not let him have my fb password but he asked for it so how can I refute? I lost my friends, my face and I was being dismembered by the group by his name-calling my superiors. When your hubby don’t want you to create an interest of your own even petty subject such as aerobic workout or reading a book makes him angry with me. When he’s gone too far it’s not the first time that he do it messing and breaking everything that you try to put up as the source of your happiness and probably a simple way to pass the boredom and mundane everyday chores .Along with the big and important subject in my life trying to cripple me and let me live in isolation. What shall You do?